I turned 45 years old yesterday and here is what happened

April 23rd, 2021 : I turned 45 years old. I received many wonderful wishes, got surprised by my team at work, had a sweet little night with my wonderful wife, and planning a big party with friends.

Some people told me “you are getting old Anthony”. I laugh every time I am being told that. Because it is so far way from my current mindset. I love to use my birthday to reflect on my life. Am I happy where I am ? Am I reaching my dreams, my goals or at least getting closer to them ? Am I getting better, nicer, wiser ? Am I getting closer to God ? Am I being a better husband, father, coworker, son, brother, uncle, friend, human being ?

Yesterday, I turned 45 years old and I realized that I don’t feel old at all. Actually I am feeling younger than ever. I have so many projects, so many dreams, so many goals I am working on and that I intend to achieve. As we were waking up this morning with my beautiful wife, I shared that conviction I have deeply in me. “Why do you think you feel that way ?” she asked. What a great question ! The answer is now really obvious to me.

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I feel that way since I have taken OWNERSHIP in my life, since I know that who I am today is the result of the decisions I have made in my past. I know that the “me of tomorrow” depends on my actions today. A lot of good things have happened to me, A lot of bad things have happened to me, as well. Big tragedies. But so is life. And so is life for everyone. Everyone goes through a lot in life. But what makes life great is to know that despite all difficult circumstances, you can still build yourself a beautiful life. You can make it happen !!! It took me a long time. A very long time ! But that’s ok. I am now free, liberated, in charge and excited. I have my hands on the steering wheel and yes bad things will happen. Good things too. I will continue to go through ups and downs. But I am in charge. I will react the best I can while facing challenges. I will give the best of me. I will persevere. I will work hard. I will not give up. And when things get messy, I will take OWNERSHIP.

Yesterday, I was listening to a podcast hosted by Lisia Bilyeu. The guest was explaining the responsibility you have in any relationship. So many couples get upset at their partner because they are not doing this, not saying that, not behaving this way,….when really they don’t look at what they could do to improve themselves. Take responsibility. Focus on yourself. Improve yourself. Be the husband or wife you want to have. Be the partner you want to have. Take ownership. I can assure you it will inspire your partner so much. FOCUS ON GIVING, not on getting. You will reap the rewards exponentially. Your couple will be as strong as what you give to it. Feed the relationship !!!

The body you have today, the mindset you have, the relationships you have, the money in your bank account are directly connected to the choices you have made. To the actions you took. To the people you have chosen to be around you.

You don’t like your body weight ? You don’t like where your intimate relationship is ? You don’t like the thoughts you have at night ? You are not happy with the money you make ? With the savings you have accumulated so far or all the debt you have ? Then, here is the good news. YOU CAN CHANGE IT. IT IS UP TO YOU ! Nobody else. Period. Don’t blame anyone or any circumstance. Everyone faces difficulties. Still some have plenty of success, others are miserable. What is the difference ? Some are taking the wheel !!!!

You want an amazing body ? You want to be healthy and wealthy ? Have an amazing relationship with your spouse ? You can do it !!!

Yesterday, I turned 45 years old and I got so excited. Not excited about having a birthday. But excited to know that I am in charge. That I know, deep in me, that I will achieve these goals and dreams that are so dear to my heart. I know I am going to be healthier, wealthier, in better shape, closer to God, closer to my wife and kids,..than ever. I dream of having a very impactful life on others. And it is going to happen. Because I am in charge !!!!

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Anthony Perdrix