Change your mindset if you want to win

What is the difference between a looser and a winner ?
What is the difference between a rich and a poor man ?
What is the difference between a fit man and a man who is overweight ?

Of course many things, but one key differentiator is The Mindset
If you want to be rich, if you want to be successful, to be fit, to live a passionate marriage, to reach your true potential; you need to switch your mindset : the mindset of winning.

How do you get the mindset of winning ? You take responsibility. You demonstrate ownership. You show character. When things fall apart and believe me, they will, you don’t complain, whine, point fingers, say it is someone’s else fault. You don’t get depressed, you don’t go in panic mode, you don’t think about the issue. You think about the solution. You say : “It doesn’t matter whose fault it is, no matter what, it is my responsibility to bring the right solution to the table”.
You want to be a winner. Show the character of a winner.

I hear and read a lot of comments made by people about what government should do or shouldn’t do, about what companies should do or shouldn’t do. Interesting questions and interesting debates. But that is not going to make you a winner. The key question is what do YOU do ?

There is a lot of opinions about what the country should be doing about the Covid-19 virus ? Good ! But what do YOU do to avoid the spread of the virus ? Do you take ownership ? Do you take responsibility ?
Is it your fault that the virus is here and spreading in our world and country ? of course not ! But it is for sure YOUR responsibility to do your part in stopping the spread.
In the same fashion, there is a lot of opinions about the racial tensions in our country. Do you take ownership about this situation ? You most likely didn’t create these tensions but you have responsibility in doing your part, in bringing solutions.

And when I say, doing your part, each of us will come with different answers, different actions. And that’s ok ! That is not my point to tell you what you should do. But it is my point to tell you that it is your
responsibility to do something.
There is not a one single solution to all these complex issues. The key point is not the answer you choose. The key point is the mindset you choose to have to respond to the situation.

Are you going to have the mindset of a victim or of a savior ? the mindset of a victim or of a looser ?
Starting today, make the conscious decision to change your mindset, to look at challenges as opportunities, to grow, to get better, to demonstrate strong character, and to bring solutions to the table.

Change your mindset if you want to win…

Anthony Perdrix